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Stillbirth Poems - A Father's Grief

All too often fathers are unintentionally forgotten about when their partner loses their baby to stillbirth. This poem illustrates beautifully just how painful the loss of a much wanted baby is to a father.

A Father's Grief

It must be very difficult
To be a man in grief,
Since 'men don't cry'
and 'men are strong'
No tears can bring relief.

It must be very difficult
To stand up to the test,
And field the calls and visitors
So she can get some rest.

They always ask if she's all right
And what she's going through.
But seldom take his hand and ask,
'My friend, but how are you?''

He hears her crying in the night
And thinks his heart will break.
He dries her tears and comforts her,
But 'stays strong' for her sake.

It must be very difficult
To start each day anew.
And try to be so very brave-
He lost his baby too.

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The Miscarriage Association, ph 01924 200 799, offers support and advice to women, their partners and families who have experienced miscarriage. They have articles covering how you might feel after a miscarriage, special circumstances, trying again as well as by mothers who have experienced miscarriages.

SANDS is an organisation which can offer you support when your baby dies during pregnancy or after birth.

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